But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. Gal. 5:22-23
It is SO easy to get frustrated with the very folks we love the most. It's easy to become aggravated at friends and family members who make poor decisions. It is easy for me to become irritated with myself. Grace and Patience - we need it.
Feminina says it so well here: Grace on the Fly. "...try to be a character you would like..."? Well said! Please, go read her whole post.